Jun 192013
 

curly fro

Origins and current location?
Hi there!!! Im Fanta/Farah, I am North/West African. I grew up in Jozi and Pretoria but im currently residing in Schoemansville

What are you currently up to?
I work fulltime and study part-time.  I am in the Beauty and Cosmetic Chemistry field and love every second of my career. I am a cosmetic formulation analyst.

My hustle? The sky is the limit!  My first career path was Somatology aka everything holistic and health related. I have a beauty spa managed by my awesome team of empowered beauticians. I have been doing hair consultation since 2007.  I normally do a 1 year intense hair journey with many awesome clients. The best part is having ladies who have not been able to retain good amount of length in a very long time, and to see them very happy after 1 year of hard work with them. Makes me proud!

My other hustle: I sell unrefined Shea Butter and black soap (Ghanaian grade).

How long have you been natural? Briefly take us through your natural hair journey.
Hair grows every day and I give credit to every millimetre that grows so I calculate my growth from my last relaxer. I have been natural for 20months, 21 September 2011 was my last relaxer.

My 20 months of being natural has been a breeze because I purposely chose to keep it simple. I have 2 main issues at hand:

1. I relaxed my hair for 17 years so taking it really slow and baby steps is much safer for me.

2. I have some serious hairline issues, so I would rather go slowly on something new.

No hectic styling = Less length-retention disappointments and less damage to my hairline.

No hectic technique = less manipulation.

No product collection (aka Product junkie) = extra money to spend on reading, learning and growing mentally and less confusion to my hair texture.

I did a lot of research during these 20 months with people who shared their story online, and with  ladies with similar hair to mine and I tried to see where I could just “accept” that, this is what my hair “likes” or “dislikes”.

I had made a lot of decisions along the lines of  ”Tangled hair” VS “knots” VS “frizzy hair” VS “shrinkage” and finding my balance and just accepting my hair as is.

Why did you decide to go natural?
I was on a relaxed hair journey for about 3 years. I had about 60cm of relaxed hair, healthy and nothing wrong with it.  It became time consuming for the maintenance. I wanted to relax it every 4 months, but my hair couldn’t handle 4 months without a relaxer. It was getting tedious and exhausting so I quickly did a 360 degree transition from long relaxed hair to a TWA (teeny weeny afro) of 5-7cm long . And of course, I had to grow confidence of 100cm long to brush off all the negative comments and crazy stares especially from close friends and family.

What do you love about your hair since you’ve gone natural?
Versatility. The options are so endless it is amazing!

And what do you dislike about your natural hair?
Shrinkage.  My shrinkage brings a lot of knotting, tangling, and frizziness. So it becomes difficult to comb/brush it.

What are some of the challenges and advantages you’ve experienced?

Challenges
Having mentioned that I have weak hairline, I found that my hair line issues are even more prominent since I have gone natural. So because of this, I do not style my hair as much as I should. Again, another cliché, “her hair ain’t your hair”, many naturals can get away with so many styles but I really think each individual need to evaluate what their hair can and cannot do and where do they plan to be with their hair  journey within “a certain amount of time”. For example, how much length/health or shine do you want to get in “2 years” time? Obviously this means a couple of sacrifices to achieve the goal.

Advantages
I have to admit that my hair can handle silicone and silicone-free products so if I am stuck in an area with very few choices, my hair will survive. I love afros and curly fros and my hair does wonders with those two.

 

bunWhat is your hair care regimen?

Every Sunday

1.      I detangle my hair using an oil (any thick oil like REGULAR castor oil, olive oil or grapeseed ). I place my hair  in 4 sections.

2.      I deep condition with a protein or moisture or oil treatment (it really depends on availability).

3.      I co-wash my hair.

4.      I leave regular conditioner in my hair once I am done with the co-wash, and from there I let my hair air- dry.

5.      Once it is dry, I style my hair however I please (braids, twists, fro, up-dos, anything cute).

6.      Night routine: Twist or braid my hair at night using water and some conditioner or hair moisturizer.

7.      In the morning: I unravel my twists or braids.

What hair products do you use and where do you buy them? 
I will admit I have tried plenty of products that I love very much but these are the brands I have on repeat: L’Oreal Elvive, or Gliss, John Frieda curl conditioner. I try  new things all the time so I don’t have staple products for now.

I formulate a lot natural based products myself so I end up being my own guinea pig.

What results do you expect from a hair product when you purchase it?
Shine, soft and manageable hair, and enough slip to detangle easily.

Do you struggle finding products that work for your hair or are you happy with the ones you’re currently using?
I don’t struggle to find products because I refuse to limit myself on just “Clicks, Shoprite and PicknPay” and I refuse to let advertising sweep me away from reality ( from what could be good for my hair).  I like Tresseme, Aussie and many more. Dischem, pharmacies and plenty of South African websites for vegetarians and vegans sell plenty of great natural products for hair. Hair pomades by Pantene or VO5 works for me because they don’t contain mineral oil, so I style my updos with them.

I am happy with every purchase I always love to try new things when I have finished the current purchase.

Are you planning on locking it in the future?
It has never crossed my mind as yet.

 Which type of natural hairstyle(s) do you like to rock?
Simple updo’s, buns, curly-afros.

SONY DSC

Do you have a favourite natural hair salon where you treat your hair?
No. I think the last time I went to a salon was maybe 2006 /7,  I can’t remember. I have been very successful at taking care of my delicate and fragile hair. So I might not need to go to a salon anytime soon.

Any hair care tips you’d like to share with our readers?
Ladies do not limit yourself when it comes to product purchase, your hair may fall inlove with something out of the ordinary.

Google for Vegan and vegetarian sites they have plenty of plant-based products for styling and conditioning. Rather go for ingredients that your hair likes as opposed to what “everybody says is right”.

For example if your hair loves silicone, use it and clarify your hair once in a while. If you see a product that says “bonatics or batanicals” “colour care” you probably would love the ingredients so give it a try.  Lastly, avoid breakage: keep your hair stretched at night (twists or braids, buns) you will never have no stress combing or styling in the morning.

Where can I readers get hold of you?

http://www.kinkycurlylife.com/

http://www.facebook.com/Aucurlsnaturelle

http://www.youtube.com/user/aucurlsnaturelle

http://instagram.com/curlyfarah

https://twitter.com/AuCurlsN

SONY DSC

 

Jun 122013
 

Yes I got a weave, my first ever sew-in  in the history of weaves! At the beginning of this year, one of my resolutions was to try out a weave for protective styling once the cold season starts kicking in. As you guys know I’ve been experiencing issues with receding hairline this past year and that was actually one of the reasons I procrastinated.

Another reason was straight up the thought of myself wearing straight hair – I mean the main reason I went natural had nothing to do with chemicals; I just happened to believe I looked prettier natural (long, short, locs…whatever) than I did with straight hair. So after much consideration and a few discussions with my husband (who happens to be more anti-weave than he is anti-chemical…strange), I took the plunge and went for it.

The aim is to get to a certain length by December before I BC in the new year and I know I won’t get there with my hair constantly out. I started looking for a hairstyle that would be more me and finally I decided to go with what used to be my high school signature look (with my real hair back then); a look I’d be familiar with and this is what I finally decided on:

IMG-20130603-00113

Oh the way Ntombi (my hairdresser) laughed when I walked in asking for a weave. It took her a good 10min+ to actually realize I was being serious.lol

The process

  • So what we did was the usual wash routine. I also tried out some conditioner a friend made & asked me to be her guinea pig (she wants to go into the hair product business).
  • We then applied the Nubian Nature hair Elixir (mixture of all sorts of natural oils) to the damp hair as a heat protectant. Please note this was a tester; their range goes on sale end of June.
  • This was followed by low-heat blowdrying.
  • She then used the same Hair Elixir oils to base my scalp.
  • Then the weaving began and I know most of you will relate to the famous “ungangiqinisi please (please don’t pull my hair too tight)” line that comes before they get into it.
  • I also used this tip I got from True Love magazine’s beauty editor, Thami Kwazi. What she does is ask the stylist to leave out the hair on the hairline in an attempt to prevent…well…you know what. *wink*

 Why I went for the cropped look?

  1. It’s not long. It’s become clear to me that I don’t like long straight hair for myself. Although it looks stunning on other people, it just doesn’t suit me.
  2. I’m more familiar with this look on me.
  3.  The best part – it covers my receded hairline, which gives me time to nurse it (which by the way has been improving lately) back to health without trimming my edges.

People’s reactions:

  • Husband – It took a day or two for hubby to get used to it and finally bring himself to say “Maar it’s not bad shem. It actually suits you”
  • Colleagues – When I went back to work, everyone LOVED it. Although it worries me a bit that people would get this excited about hair that’s not even mine than they would with my natural hair.
  • Friends – Another friend said “Oh that’s a razor cut; I though you said you got a weave” Well, I thought any sewn in hair, long or short was classified as weave…I could be wrong. *shrugs*
  • Others – My hubby’s friend screeched “Maara why??!!” when he drove my car and saw shed bits of the weave in the car. If anyone is 100% anti-weave, it’s that guy. My husband just responded with a “Ba re ke protective styling mfwethu” hahahaha. Bless him

I must say it took some adjusting geting used to this “hat” on my hair. I promise you on day one I kept feeling like I have one of those beanies on Nangamso’s hat post on. Every few seconds I’d get this urge to take the “beanie” off. And then the next morning I decided to clean the bathroom mirror…never been that freaked out at the sight of my reflection.lol

Two reasons I may not go for this particular sew-in again:

1. Itchiness. Yoh…the way I pat my head frantically like a mad woman when no-one’s looking. #CantDeal

2. My daughter has already mentioned several times how she want’s “hair like mine” when she grows up. Now I have to work extra hard to convince her how gorgeous her hair is in it’s natural state. Also #CantDeal!!!

How are you protecting your glory this winter?

Jun 102013
 

Reader and winner of our Nubian Natural giveaway competition, Jeanedeane, recently had a big chop and shared the pics with us. IMG-20130602-WA000

 

I must add that I feel like a new person, totally free, yet a bit scared of what I’ll be doing with styling my natural hair as time goes by. I’m going to embrace this journey and take baby steps, until I know what works and what doesn’t work for my hair.

Thank you for your inspiring blog and for sharing your valuable hair knowledge with so many ladies that need to be spoon-fed with information like me :) )) God bless!

We are so excited for you Jeanedeane and wish you all the best in your journey. You actually look slightly younger after the BC. Piece of advice – somedays will be easier/harder that others but the trick is patience and enjoying every inch, shrinkage and texture as you go along.

May 312013
 

Last week Saturday FroChic was invited to the launch of the Nubian Nature hair care range. The event was held at NexDor restaurant at the famous Vilakazi street in Soweto.

The Nubian Nature co-founders, Mummy Mthembu-Fawkes & Shereen Makhanye, outdid themselves; the venue and the event was very well organised and professional. It was also well attended with ladies (and gents) spotting all sorts of hairstyles, from fros to locs to weaves. This showed that there are many of us who are still on the look out for that good hair product that has good ingredients and does what it say it does. From reading the labels on their products it’s very clear that a lot of research and care went into the development of their hair care range.

The event started off with a light breakfast of platters of sandwiches, fruit salad and a variety of sweet things. The setting was informal and this gave everyone the chance to mingle and chat while we were waiting for the event to start.

We then moved on to the formal proceedings where Mummy and Shereen (looking very stylish in their black outfits) gave us a presentation on why they started their hair care line. They also gave us an overview of their own individual hair journeys and this was accompanied by many nods from the ladies in the audience since we could all relate to their stories. It was really great to hear about their hair journey, as well as their daily struggle to find that one good product that will work on their hair. They also touched on HAIRLINES and how to take care of that baby hair, that was quite informative.

We were then introduced to their hair care range :-) . The range will (for now) consist of the following: Moisturising Scalp Cleanser, Cleansing Conditioner, Shea-Lavender Moisturising Souffle and Hair Elixir. However, the products will only be available for sale at the end of June. They can be purchased on their online store which will be up-and-running once the products are available for sale on their website at www.nubiannature.co.za

20130525_112749[1]

We absolutely love the packaging!

Mummy and Shereen giving their presentation

Mummy and Shereen giving their presentation.

After we had lots of fun listening to their presentation, we were able to ask some questions. Once they wrapped up everything (the formal part of the event), we then moved upstairs where we could see a few hair demos using Nubian Nature hair products and of course we got more time to mingle and chat :-)

Upstairs where we got a chance to mingle and see some of the hair demos.

Upstairs where we got a chance to mingle and see some of the hair demos.

Nangamso (centre) with Nubian Nature founders, Shereen (left) & Mummy (right)

Nangamso (centre) with Nubian Nature founders, Shereen (left) & Mummy (right)

Matlhodi and Wisaal (blogger of Wiscellaneous)

Matlhodi and Wisaal (blogger of www.wiscellaneous.com)

Nangamso (left), Jeanedeane (centre) & Matlhodi (right)

Nangamso (left), Jeanedeane (centre) & Matlhodi (right)

Mummy (left) & Barati (right)

Mummy (left) & Barati (right)

It was a beautiful sunny day

More mingling…lol.

All in all, it was a great afternoon! It was also lovely to meet some of our readers, Barati, Jeanedaene and Kgomotso. The event started around 10:30 and we only left after 1pm, so you can imagine the fun we had! We also got to take home a goody bag :-) The goody bag had a sample of the souffle & hair elixir, as well as a girl’s best friend, the satin scarf – yippy!

20130525_183308_LLS[1]

Thanks to Mummy and Shereen for a fantastic event! Looking forward to more events in the future and we cant wait to tryout their hair care range :-)

 

May 212013
 

We follow Claire Mawisa on Twitter & I recently spotted her gorgeous avi – and I just had to share! Check out those locs! Insane.

d7a033217b7d7f6704ea3295af2b51af

 I love the thickness of them, the colour and those curly spirals! Too beautiful! Do y’all agree??

You can follow her on Twitter @clairemawisa

May 152013
 

**UPDATE**

We are pleased to announce the lucky winners who will be attending the launch of Nubian Nature:

*Welzi Sikhondze

*Jeanedeane Billings Booysen

*Nokx Maseko

Congratulations!!!  Ladies, please remember to send us your email address if you haven’t already. We will send you more details on email. 

See you at the launch!

***

We come bearing good news…no wait…actually it’s exciting news. There’s a new hair product line in town!! You may ask “what’s so special about this one?”. Well let’s paint you a little picture..(a) 100% local (South African) (b) Sulphate-free shampoo (c) No mineral oils (d) Paraben-free (e) Petrolatum-free…bona!! *happy dance*

What we love about this new hair care range is that it’s natural…by naturals. We met with the two ladies behind Nubian Nature hair products and it was so reassuring to see two black women with healthy-looking natural hair albeit different hair textures, Mummy & Shereen.

As we sat there listening to their hair journey stories, on how much they used to spend on overseas’ hair products and their frustration of not finding good products in South Africa, we found ourselves nodding to every line they uttered.lol After months of research, home-made concoctions, (human) testing and and and, they finally came up with natural formulas that (as they put it) work. If the hair we saw on these ladies’ heads is anything to go by, Nubian Nature is sure going to be a household name for naturals in South Africa (and possibly neighbouring countries).

They’re launching this line on the morning of the 25th of May 2013 and have 4 seats still available for our readers.

395643_10200721578098310_240974471_n

So if you reside in or are able to make it to Johannesburg on the day, we’re giving away those 4 seats to:

The first 2 readers who will:

1. Follow us on Twitter (@frochicblog)

2. Then follow Nubian Nature (@nubiannature)

3. Tweet us & Nubian Nature in one tweet with the words “I’m #HappilyNatural”

 

The first 2 readers who will:

1. Like our Frochic page

2. Like the Nubian Nature’s facebook page

3. Comment on both pages with the line “I’m happily natural!”

 

Winners will be announced on Friday, 17 May 2013.

 

May 082013
 

Woop! Woop!

We are sooo excited to be featured in the Winter issue of Glamour Hair magazine! We’ve known about the feature for a while now but we’ve been waiting (patiently) for about 2 months to see the final product. And now it’s finally on the shelves and we absolutely love it!

It was also great to be featured side-by-side with Aisha (aka Cosmogirl) of MyFroAndI. It was great to finally meet her in person at the photoshoot. She is such a beautiful lady with a great personality :-) We had so much fun and of course chatted about all things hair.

We received 5-star treatment; the set was very professional looking and the glamour team (stylist & make up artist & photographer) were an absolute pleasure to work with. It was all lots of fun! Our photographer was great; he made sure that we felt comfortable and that we gave our best poses :-)

Here are a few behind the scenes of what went down:

Fb_0_SDgOLOa6gT6vxn9fi6EyD6C8a5NphgT69WLgyM

-XddO9Tb_fR18Z87HzSTPNhrB-7exXvbiAVulTkXM7o

Face time: Nangamso (right) & Aisha (left)

jcTxwgzPzTaT2kSyoHZjVylWCvYzRt-09d3aNwVuUvg

Matlhodi getting dolled up (never mind the peeping bra)

J8g5lUnoN_-Zk0Z88Bq4x08Q2xHnqBqrUKmrdD7gODI

The photographer showing us how it’s done.lol

Aisha doing her thing

Aisha doing her thing

 

Matlhodi looking photo ready.

Matlhodi looking photo ready.

Putting on the finishing touches

Putting on the finishing touches

Here is the final look in magazine :-)

The final look! Find us on pages 62 to 65.

The final look! Find us on pages 62 to 65.

 

A closer look

A closer look

Shout out to Glamour Hair magazine, Michelle Brownlee-Smith and her team for giving us this awesome opportunity!

May 072013
 

Last week I got invited to check out Sne Motene’s Kaello Hair salon &  Spa in Blaigowrie (Randburg, North of Johannesburg) and as you all know that’s part of the perks of being a blogger. :)

I took a friend along to avoid being biased since I sort of knew the owner.lol. We went for a full body aromatherapic massage. The story behind the choice is quite funny (we had initially chosen Swedish massage until they unpacked the difference between it  and the aromatherapic massage). Anyway, I took out my protective hairstyle with an intention to test their natural hairstyling skill but after my grumpy-black-hairstylist experience at the Sorbet Dry-bar opening, I decided otherwise. I did ask Sne though if they catered for natural hair to which she said yes; and the ORS products on display made me believe.

The massage was nice, I just happened to get what seemed to be a trainee therapist as I had to constantly ask her to apply more pressure – the other therapist who was working on my friend at some point even came over to my bed to give her a few pointers. But I could tell my friend was reallly enjoying hers as I didn’t hear even a single complaint or comment from her. Below are a few snippets of some parts of the place:

Kaelloshs

Their prices aren’t too steep either:IMG-20130501-WA005

Would I visit them again? Mos def! I actually wanted to get a manicure but time wasn’t on my side. The place is very easy to find as it’s on Jan Smuts Avenue…by the corner (even better).

Oh…did I mention they’ve incorporated a bridal store just by the spa. It’s called Kaello Bridal and promises very chic bridal dresses and gowns (for sale & hire) at prices that won’t break your bank.

DSCN0256

May 062013
 

Andrea’s Photos

23092012(006)

Andrea (right) & her mom

“I really admire & love this lady to bits she is my best friend & the most down to earth, fun, loving woman I know.”

Andreanson

Andrea with her son

Some of her favourite mother & child pictures

facebook_898193100

Eish yah neh…

andreas

This is just too precious.

“Lol sorry it’s only natural hair related I can’t seem to find anything in the “outside world” that fascinates me much.”

– Andrea

Facebook

Get the Facebook Likebox Slider Pro for WordPress